The People need ordained Monogamy Marriages to have sex to have Children. Let get the Basics right.
(01) 1 Female To 1 Male Monogamy Marriage.
(02) Virgin-to-Virgin Marriage. Sage-Kings should try to setup a System so that Virgin Females & Virgin Males can have Marriages. So that GOD can compute more easily so that couples can get marry. (*Note: why arranged marriage fail in middle-age China is that Sage-Kings no longer around to setup System. Father arranged young daughter to marry old ugly rich powerful male to consolidate position.)
(01) Nothing to do with food, you can be still happy with someone you love even without food.
(02) Nothing to do with money, you can be still happy with someone you love even without money.
(03) Nothing to do with sex, you can be still happy with someone you love even without sex.
(04) *It is to be with someone you love who love you.